Well said. It is so tempting to go through the list and explain what my ex did for each of those – and justify and explain – ‘yes. See. He is like that. ‘ but the people that already know don’t need to and the people that don’t believe me and listen to him will never get it because they have swallowed his lies hook, line and sinker. I am so grateful that I have found a community that understand.
The moment my psychiatrist told me “you’re husband is a Narcissistic Sociopath” in 2011, after only meeting him twice and hearing about him from my stepson and myself… I realized it would be KEY for me to research all I possibly could about Narcissistic Sociopaths. She nearly attacked him in her office when she saw what he was doing to me.
This helped me sooooo much – disarming him by understanding him…..
I have a strong belief in understanding all I can about my ‘enemy’ when it comes down to the rage and cruelty he has shown after he realized I was never going to be his wife again.
I thought it was bad before, but it was beyond horrific once he knew he lost me for good.
If not for my children’s lives and the lives of my stepsons being…
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